Marriage with real love

I remembered during my college days, we were tasked to report about sacrament of matrimony or marriage in my theology subject. I preferred a married classmate as my partner so that she could help in making the presentation hence I was a single and don’t have any experience about married life. A day comes for the presentation of the topic and my partner shared nothing about her married life. She said; she is forced to be committed with someone because she got pregnant and to save her from disgrace. So I decided to make another topic which is related to it that I could expound it more. I have clipped one story I have read in the newspaper about basis of love. And it says; Marriage defined as; it is a spousal relationship with great affection to each other and ready to be committed with each other for life, and ready to accept the gift of God as a procreator. But before accepting the commitment, the couple must first know there basis of love to one another. Why some couple ended up separation and divorce? Maybe because the relationship has lack of understanding, patience, trust, perseverance and love. These traits are the characteristics of a real love. If there’s trust in the relationship there is faith and there is no uncertainty .If relationship has understanding there is support to one another. The other basis is love from lust. This kind of relationship begins with sweetness and desires and when it falls out it brings struggles to the relationship.